He's going through a period of weariness.
Sometimes, distance arises from simply being worn down by daily life. Between obligations, routine, and fatigue, spontaneity fades. It's not a loss of love, but a need for space. A weekend away together, an unexpected gesture, or a shared project can breathe new life into the relationship.
He fears vulnerability.
Being close to someone also means showing yourself as you truly are. And this transparency can be frightening. Some men prefer to keep a part of themselves hidden, for fear of being judged or hurt. Their withdrawal is therefore not a rejection, but a way to protect themselves. Offering a safe space to listen without pressure helps rebuild trust.
He's simply exhausted.
When the body and mind can't take it anymore, there's sometimes no energy left for anything. Burnout, lack of sleep, or accumulated worries can temporarily extinguish any desire for closeness. In these situations, patience and support are the greatest expressions of love. He may be carrying a secret or worry.
Sometimes, distance hides an emotion that's difficult to admit: guilt, shame, or a situation he doesn't know how to talk about. Without jumping to conclusions, it's wise to remain attentive to signs of distress and open the door to a sincere, non-judgmental conversation.
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